Don’t Forget to Connect (with each other) this Holiday Season
The holiday season is in full swing, with all the to-do list tasks it brings. There are big meals to cook, gatherings to attend, shopping and wrapping to do, and so much more! It’s easy to get swept up in the hustle and bustle and forget to connect with our children, partners, and other loved ones. Here are a few ideas for staying close this holiday season.
Maintain your everyday routines as much as possible. If you usually eat breakfast or dinner together or tuck your kids in with a bedtime story, keep it up. Splurge on something from the prepared food section and save on the prep time, not the together time.
Create a holiday prep ritual. If you have a million things to do, turn one of them into a new family tradition. Hang the lights, address the cards, or cook the meal together.
Become co-conspirators. Team up with a family member to plan an epic surprise for someone else in the family.
Mandatory cuddles (consent required, of course). When the weather gets cold, add 15 minutes of snuggle time before bed to keep everybody warm. It’s mandatory, so don’t skip it to get something done.
Cookies and milk for dinner (or wine and cheese with your partner). Your kids will know you’ve lost your mind when you serve them treats at mealtime, and they’ll definitely remember it. If your conscience is struggling with this one, put a bowl of fruit or cut veggies on the table too. You may be surprised to see your little ones reach for it all on their own. For extra fun, have the kids decorate the cookies to look like other foods they might eat at dinner time!
Disconnect to connect. Turn off your devices one evening per week or one weekend day. You might even get more of your to-do list done while you’re at it!
Express gratitude. When everyone’s together, dish out thank yous for the everyday things your family members do for you.
